Based on several years of ethnographic fieldwork, the book explores life in and around a Luo-speaking village in western Kenya during a time of death. The epidemic of HIV/AIDS affects every aspect of sociality and pervades villagers' debates about the past, the future and the ethics of everyday life.

Table of illustrations Acknowledgements Chapter 1. Introduction: “Are we still together here?" A community at the end of the world The death of today Growing relations Being together Growth Touch Searching for another social practice Engaging boundaries Hygiene Knowing boundaries Changing perspectives? Coming together Visiting Chapter 2. Landscapes and histories Returns A road in time Kisumu Driving out Bondo District The lake Piny Luo - ‘Luoland’ A ‘tribe’ Luo sociality The reserve Return to Uhero Yimbo Muthurwa Making Uhero village (Re-)Settlement Belonging and ownership A modern Luo village ‘Down’ into the village ‘Up’ and ‘down’ KaOkoth Alternative ‘modernities’: the beach and ‘Jerusalem’ KaOgumba Chapter 3. Salvation and Tradition: heaven and earth? Dichotomies in everyday life Salvation Strong Christians Saved life Saved and others Faith in purity Tradition The Luo rules ‘Born-again’ Traditionalism Traditionalism, Christianity and The West Customary everyday life Searching ways Tradition in everyday life Everyday ritual The absence of ritual The omnipresence of ritual PART ONE Chapter 4. ‘Opening the way’: being at home in Uhero Introduction “Our culture says that one must make a home” Relational flows: embedding growth in the home Tom’s new home Moving forward - directions Openings and closures Order and sequence Complementarity and growth: coming together in the house Making a house Sharing the gendered house The living house Gender, generation and growth Struggling against implication The home in heaven ‘The rules of the home’ Powers of explication Practicing rules Cementing relations Traditionalism and other kinds of ethnography 5. Growing children: shared persons and permeable bodies Introduction Sharing Sharing or exchange? Sharing food Food, blood and kinship ‘The child is of the mother’ Changed foods and relations Sharing and dividing nurture Shared bodies Illnesses of infancy and their treatment Evil eye and spirits Medical pluralism? Herbal medicines Cleanness and dirt Sharing names Being named after Being called Sharing names and naming shares Conclusion PART TWO Chapter 6. Order and decomposition: touch around sickness and death Introduction Otoyo’s home The sickness of a daughter Return of a daughter Kwer and chira Continuity and contingency Avoiding the rules Treating chira Caring The death of a husband Expected death “She should remember her love!” Death The funeral The dead body Loving people Conclusion Chapter 7. ‘Life Seen’: touch, vision and speech in the making of sex in Uhero Introduction Earthly ethics and Christian morality Riwruok Riwruok: outside intentionality Chira: Growth and directionality Chodo and luor: continuity and change Cleanness: Sex and separation The proliferation of 'Sex' AIDS and chira The fight against AIDS Pornography - ‘bad things’ Conclusion Chapter 8. “Our Luo culture is sick”: identity and infection in the debate about widow inheritance Introduction Testing positive Becoming a widow Contentious practices A tough head Tero Independence Alone Inheritance and infection Past and present tero Fighting tero Deprivation and property Inheriting HIV - fears about women’s sexuality and social reproduction Turning tero into a business Ambiguous heritage: Tero as source of identity and infection ‘Our Luo culture is sick’ ‘The most elaborate and solemn ritual’: tero is our culture Sanitising Luo culture? Conclusion PART THREE Chapter 9. “How can we drink his tea without killing a bull?” - funerary ceremony and matters of remembrance Introduction Funerary ceremonies Funerals in Uhero Funeral commensality Returning to the funeral Osure’s sawo An Earthly feast Rebekka Eating the sawo Traces of the past ‘Sides’ Baba Winston’s memorial A Christian funerary celebration Debates The service Remembrance Conclusion Chapter 10. “The land is dying” - Traces and monuments in the village landscape Introduction Cutting the land Ownership Land, paper and power Living on the land Gardens and farms The bush Fences At home Traces and inscriptions Getting one’s land - finding one’s place Conclusion Chapter 11. Contingency, creativity and difference in western Kenya Creative difference Old and new dealings with hybridity “Are we still together here?” Postscript Ka-Ogumba 2007 Bibliography Books and Articles Newspaper articles and electronic media Music Index

Awarded the 2010 Amaury Talbot Prize for African Anthropology by the Royal Anthropological Institute “For me this was one of the best ethnographies I have read for many years.”  ·  Social Anthropology/Anthropologie sociale “…[a]thoughtful and creative book… [It] is an excellent resource and it is a good read: theoretical without being overwhelming, anthropological without being off-putting, serious but amusing. In sum, it is a rare and valuable contribution.”  ·  African Studies Quarterly “While not a light book, this is one for anyone seeking ethnographic understanding based on an equatorial African setting not to overlook…A short review can hardly do justice to the care behind the book or the local flavor it conveys: the accuracy of its translations, the sensitivity and empathy behind its life histories, the candor about research tactics and dilemmas…It is one warmly to be welcomed.”  ·  Anthropos “One of the richest ethnographies of African social life of recent years… As do the best ethnographies, this book communicates the wonder of its authors at touching and being touched deeply across difference.”  ·  JRAI “In addition to [its] broad examination of the intertwining of Africans’ experiences of AIDS and associated social changes, [an important] theme …is[its]extended and sophisticated treatment of morality as an integral aspect not only of the AIDS epidemic, but also of every dimension of the social responses it has produced.”  ·  African Studies Review   “The originality of this book lies in its careful exploration of touch and contingency, drawing on Michel de Certeau and Emmanuel Lévinas. The sensitive ethnography and judicious use of other sources make for superb anthropology…Here is a book that provides inspiration as well as beautifully crafted documentation of efforts to maintain the flow of life in specific difficult historical circumstances.”  ·  Mortality